"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Colombian Ladies

ANIRBAN

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I am planning to date a Colombian lady..any idea whats their idea and culture of dating and what pleases them..are they independent ladies or dependent ones? Do they expect the men to take charge all the time?

Some have the reputation of being dodgy....so kind of in two minds.

anyone with some experience of dating a Colombiana??

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rex Man

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ANARBIN - you sound like a fukking idiot (no offense to any idiots on this board).
She likes what SHE likes. You won't benefit from us running you down a list of stereotypes of columbians. How about this, she likes a man that's confident in himself not to ask such dumb questions.
 

bambam

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i bet she is living in america or outside her country. females change when they leave their homeland. i hear idiots on here claiming they have dated russian girls. uh, where did you date this russian girl? "dude, i live in #### and there are a ton here." sorry, that is not a russian!

you should avoid immigrants. the best girls on this planet become total bit!!!! when they leave their motherland. they even change their shape and bone structure! i swear this is true. immigrant communites are screwed up these days.

my advice is to run - not walk from this one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Soprano

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MooseGod said:
^ A little harsh, but not far from the truth. Different cultures do have their different mating dances, but self-assuredness is the same no matter where you come from.
mating dances?? how long have you been frozen??

do it like u would with any other girl
 

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A lot of those sweet young things from developing countries do have one thing in common in that 10-18 months after being removed from their natural habitat they can double in size.
 

everywomanshero

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Buenos Aires is an awesome city, first class place besides just getting laid a lot. Lots of beautiful women around. However, I have found Lima, Peru to be a better destination for being a lazy man with lots of beautiful women in his life. In general, although Argentina is perhaps a little classier than Peru, I would prefer Peru. If you want to go to Argentina there is plenty to do though and it's very easy to meet people in either place.
 
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