"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Colombian Ladies

ANIRBAN

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I am planning to date a Colombian lady..any idea whats their idea and culture of dating and what pleases them..are they independent ladies or dependent ones? Do they expect the men to take charge all the time?

Some have the reputation of being dodgy....so kind of in two minds.

anyone with some experience of dating a Colombiana??

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rex Man

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ANARBIN - you sound like a fukking idiot (no offense to any idiots on this board).
She likes what SHE likes. You won't benefit from us running you down a list of stereotypes of columbians. How about this, she likes a man that's confident in himself not to ask such dumb questions.
 

bambam

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i bet she is living in america or outside her country. females change when they leave their homeland. i hear idiots on here claiming they have dated russian girls. uh, where did you date this russian girl? "dude, i live in #### and there are a ton here." sorry, that is not a russian!

you should avoid immigrants. the best girls on this planet become total bit!!!! when they leave their motherland. they even change their shape and bone structure! i swear this is true. immigrant communites are screwed up these days.

my advice is to run - not walk from this one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soprano

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MooseGod said:
^ A little harsh, but not far from the truth. Different cultures do have their different mating dances, but self-assuredness is the same no matter where you come from.
mating dances?? how long have you been frozen??

do it like u would with any other girl
 

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A lot of those sweet young things from developing countries do have one thing in common in that 10-18 months after being removed from their natural habitat they can double in size.
 

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Buenos Aires is an awesome city, first class place besides just getting laid a lot. Lots of beautiful women around. However, I have found Lima, Peru to be a better destination for being a lazy man with lots of beautiful women in his life. In general, although Argentina is perhaps a little classier than Peru, I would prefer Peru. If you want to go to Argentina there is plenty to do though and it's very easy to meet people in either place.
 
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