"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cologne? Not for me

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I don't wear any of the crap. And the gal I've been seeing told me she likes the fact that I smell like a man.

A lot of the stuff is downright toxic. Really.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There's some good stuff out there though. It can really up your chances if you pick the right stuff.

Personal preference I guess.
 
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I used to use cologne, but most girls I've dated and the ones I'm friends with all tell me that they prefer very little if at all. Cologne can be good for a bar or club scene, but in general I don't find much use for it, and I seem to do just fine with the ladies.
 
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I think cologne is totally unecessary. How much of a difference can it make if she doesn't like your looks or personality? How much of a difference can it make if she already has interest? I don't think much at all.

I also don't like perfume on girls. I hate it when I hear guys say "she smelled so good." It wasn't her that smelled good, it was the perfume.
 
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It is personal preference. If you're going to say that about cologne, they why not say it about cool clothes, or non-knappy hair every morning? Cologne brings a small sense of style if you use it right. But use it because you like it and don't depend on it as your main course of action to reel in women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by NRM
It is personal preference. If you're going to say that about cologne, they why not say it about cool clothes, or non-knappy hair every morning?
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Good point. For women men's clothes are very important. I suspect for some of them men's cologne might be important too.
Though it is not that obvious: your natural smell, pheromones might work even better for the right girl.
 
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Originally posted by Bonhomme
I don't wear any of the crap.
A lot of the stuff is downright toxic. Really.
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I agree about toxic - it is not a good feeling even to know that we have to put some toxic stuff on our bodies.

Though how do survive in summer withoout any kind of deodorant? Talking shower 5 times a day?
By the way, I guess deodorants are much more harmful especially if applied regularly.
 
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