RichardTheFrog
Banned
Suddenly occurred to me how important it is that a girl likes your smell. What are some great colognes? Or even pheromones, as was previously mentioned.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you never tried artificial pheromones then you should not be knocking it. My ex-wife liked "Instant Shine" and was always aware when I put just one spray on it. I never forgot her reaction to it. She would say she liked the perfume but I never told her it was a "feel good" pheromone, she thought it was a normal perfume.I like CH Men and Creed. Just don't over do it. Artificial pheromones are a joke. Your body creates it's own pheromones; just like a woman. Stick to bulking up, some decent cologne and high confidence.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.