Well, high school is officially over (boy am i glad..) and now im off to college in 4 months. It's been a great 4 years, i have learned a lot and now that i have a clean start in college, im going to put them all in action. I am just wondering if anyone here is kind onough to give me some word of advice in building a good rep while at college. Thanks
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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- Thread starter Oni
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Heyjose25points
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Just say hi to random people during the first day, they're friendly...trust me(Don't feel bad if ur really nervous, I was...meeting people got rid of it). If someone is rude, that shows their character. You'll be surprised that most will say hi back. And when u see them around campus, they'll remember you. Get to know people in ur dorm hall, ur RAs, RDs, etc(They saved my ass countless times) Especially the females in ur dorm hall(I knew everybody on my floor, including the females. Join a club or hell, a fraternity(Make sure its a good one) College is what you make it. Make sure you have a good time, luckily i have two years left to put all this Don Juan stuff to test w/o regretting it like i did my first year when i gave up too early. Good Luck 
ShizamDaMan
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Yeah man, immediately start to create a huge social network. Like Hey Jose said, get to know everyone you can, especially those in positions of power (resident advisors, hall directors especially). They're so valuable to anything you do on campus.
My first year, I got involved with hall council, which then turned into working with campus wide groups, which turned into me getting to know some of the most important administrators on campus. Even when I was neck deep in sh*t for stuff I was in (don't ask, long story), I had people there to guard my backand stand up for me, and everything worked out ok.
I'm almost done with my second year, and no matter where I am on this campus, I can almost always find someone I know. There's more than 10,000 people living on my campus, so creating networks is very doable, especially early on.
Oh yeah, think about joining a sports team. Every sport has groupies
My first year, I got involved with hall council, which then turned into working with campus wide groups, which turned into me getting to know some of the most important administrators on campus. Even when I was neck deep in sh*t for stuff I was in (don't ask, long story), I had people there to guard my backand stand up for me, and everything worked out ok.
I'm almost done with my second year, and no matter where I am on this campus, I can almost always find someone I know. There's more than 10,000 people living on my campus, so creating networks is very doable, especially early on.
Oh yeah, think about joining a sports team. Every sport has groupies