"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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April_Infinite

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I'm the age where I need to be searching for a good place to live life up.

My first choice is Michigan, but with my 3.0 gpa, that probably won't happen. I would prefer to go somewhere in Texas, Cali, or Michigan, but whereever is fine for me as long as I enjoy it. What do you think of Michigan as a school, and also, what colleges would you recommend to me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Depends on what it is you want to go to school for. The University of Michigan has one of the best law schools in the country if you're looking at law.

If you're looking at a smaller area and better college...Dartmouth is tops. I used to live right near there and the job market is incredibly strong, and despite the small area it still has a lot of the same cultural offerings you'd find in a city.
 

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Wyldfire said:
Depends on what it is you want to go to school for. The University of Michigan has one of the best law schools in the country if you're looking at law.
And they also have the coolest football team ever
 

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Soupar said:
And they also have the coolest football team ever
I like sports and all...but I don't follow sports since I broke my sofa during an NBA playoff game. I felt I was getting a bit destructively obsessed...so I stopped watching.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you're going to be a psych major, I suggest junior college first. It's a giant rip-off to pay 20 grand a year for a degree that won't get you a job. Psychology is one of the nearly worthless liberal arts degrees. All it lets you do is apply to grad school and rack up more debt.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
If you're going to be a psych major, I suggest junior college first. It's a giant rip-off to pay 20 grand a year for a degree that won't get you a job. Psychology is one of the nearly worthless liberal arts degrees. All it lets you do is apply to grad school and rack up more debt.
What if he wants to be a psychologist?
 

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Then he'll need at least a master's and more likely a doctorate. Down the road in grad school, when he is looking at a six-figure student loan bill, 40 grand for the first two years seems not nearly as good of a deal as the 4-6 grand that jc would charge for the same credits. jc is also easier, which helps to keep up the gpa so that he can get into grad school later. Too many people charge up a giant student loan bill to get a degree that gets them nowhere in life.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
If you're going to be a psych major, I suggest junior college first. It's a giant rip-off to pay 20 grand a year for a degree that won't get you a job. Psychology is one of the nearly worthless liberal arts degrees. All it lets you do is apply to grad school and rack up more debt.
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Wait Bible Belt, so since I want to be a psycologist, I should go to junior college first, since it's easier, cheaper, and I get the same credits?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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