"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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April_Infinite

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I'm the age where I need to be searching for a good place to live life up.

My first choice is Michigan, but with my 3.0 gpa, that probably won't happen. I would prefer to go somewhere in Texas, Cali, or Michigan, but whereever is fine for me as long as I enjoy it. What do you think of Michigan as a school, and also, what colleges would you recommend to me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depends on what it is you want to go to school for. The University of Michigan has one of the best law schools in the country if you're looking at law.

If you're looking at a smaller area and better college...Dartmouth is tops. I used to live right near there and the job market is incredibly strong, and despite the small area it still has a lot of the same cultural offerings you'd find in a city.
 

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Wyldfire said:
Depends on what it is you want to go to school for. The University of Michigan has one of the best law schools in the country if you're looking at law.
And they also have the coolest football team ever
 

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Soupar said:
And they also have the coolest football team ever
I like sports and all...but I don't follow sports since I broke my sofa during an NBA playoff game. I felt I was getting a bit destructively obsessed...so I stopped watching.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you're going to be a psych major, I suggest junior college first. It's a giant rip-off to pay 20 grand a year for a degree that won't get you a job. Psychology is one of the nearly worthless liberal arts degrees. All it lets you do is apply to grad school and rack up more debt.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
If you're going to be a psych major, I suggest junior college first. It's a giant rip-off to pay 20 grand a year for a degree that won't get you a job. Psychology is one of the nearly worthless liberal arts degrees. All it lets you do is apply to grad school and rack up more debt.
What if he wants to be a psychologist?
 

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Then he'll need at least a master's and more likely a doctorate. Down the road in grad school, when he is looking at a six-figure student loan bill, 40 grand for the first two years seems not nearly as good of a deal as the 4-6 grand that jc would charge for the same credits. jc is also easier, which helps to keep up the gpa so that he can get into grad school later. Too many people charge up a giant student loan bill to get a degree that gets them nowhere in life.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
If you're going to be a psych major, I suggest junior college first. It's a giant rip-off to pay 20 grand a year for a degree that won't get you a job. Psychology is one of the nearly worthless liberal arts degrees. All it lets you do is apply to grad school and rack up more debt.
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Wait Bible Belt, so since I want to be a psycologist, I should go to junior college first, since it's easier, cheaper, and I get the same credits?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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