"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wong Fei Hung

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Being Asian has nothing to do with his reactions to this girl.

I wouldnt even want to say hi to this girl. This girl you used to like asked you to study and she really doesn't understand the material, that's her problem. If she asked you, you could make up some story to get away from someone who is just using you and wasting your time. Your time could be to spend picking up more young ladies or hanging out with your friends.

Unless she is giving something physical in return or money.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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(And if you're not Asian, just pretend you never read this.)
i am not sure if this was meant to be funny but it really gave me a good laugh.
 

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Originally posted by Wong Fei Hung
Being Asian has nothing to do with his reactions to this girl.

I wouldnt even want to say hi to this girl. This girl you used to like asked you to study and she really doesn't understand the material, that's her problem. If she asked you, you could make up some story to get away from someone who is just using you and wasting your time. Your time could be to spend picking up more young ladies or hanging out with your friends.

Unless she is giving something physical in return or money.

Dude -- 'Wong Ching Wang' or whatever the hell you're called -- this is where you're WRONG. This specific brand of AFC-ism *is* inherent among Asian-Asian couples. That's because Asian culture emphasizes "correct" behavior - meaning creating the least conflict. So many Asian guys that aren't westernized have no CLUE on how to be assertive and not a push-over.
 
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