"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wong Fei Hung

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Being Asian has nothing to do with his reactions to this girl.

I wouldnt even want to say hi to this girl. This girl you used to like asked you to study and she really doesn't understand the material, that's her problem. If she asked you, you could make up some story to get away from someone who is just using you and wasting your time. Your time could be to spend picking up more young ladies or hanging out with your friends.

Unless she is giving something physical in return or money.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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(And if you're not Asian, just pretend you never read this.)
i am not sure if this was meant to be funny but it really gave me a good laugh.
 

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Originally posted by Wong Fei Hung
Being Asian has nothing to do with his reactions to this girl.

I wouldnt even want to say hi to this girl. This girl you used to like asked you to study and she really doesn't understand the material, that's her problem. If she asked you, you could make up some story to get away from someone who is just using you and wasting your time. Your time could be to spend picking up more young ladies or hanging out with your friends.

Unless she is giving something physical in return or money.

Dude -- 'Wong Ching Wang' or whatever the hell you're called -- this is where you're WRONG. This specific brand of AFC-ism *is* inherent among Asian-Asian couples. That's because Asian culture emphasizes "correct" behavior - meaning creating the least conflict. So many Asian guys that aren't westernized have no CLUE on how to be assertive and not a push-over.
 
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