"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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College vs. High School

LesaneCrooks

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Just a little question for you college guys out there:

how does college compare to high school, in the sense of are girls quicker to give it up, and so on? are there the kinda little cliques? will DJ ideas be more applicable because the idea of what "group" you are in isnt as prevelent? im going to college next year, just wondering. Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vincent

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It depends upon the size of your school. But the closest thing to a clique is being in a frat or not. So no clique's for the most part, you got your groups of friends but it's not excusive and you shouldn't try to make it exclusive.

Chicks are generally looser in college but you'll get a couple more conservative prude ones, so don't just assume they're all sluts because they're out to meet a great guy, not just a one night stand. Of course if you meet them at a party it's a little different.

I think Eternal had a couple good posts on college.
 

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College is an entire different world than HS. Depending on the college you attend, there is no static social ladder. Everyone is more relaxed.
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Well... I went (before I transferred to culinary school) to a school with 35,000 students.

And...

In my personal opinion it was nothing but a large High School, with more access to sex, drugs, and alcohol.

Cliques? They're soros, frats, and millions of clubs... so yes.

Do girls give it up quicker? It may seem that way, but not really... there's just more women, more parties, and more 'substance' consumption.

The game still works, but they're are still social hierarchies and divison... I don't care what anyone says. Because that is something that is throughout life... it just doesn't automatically stop in HS.

So, honestly, I felt like it was different at first, but my sophmore year I was just like, "This is the same old ****, just different place."

AS
 

pimpfromdayone

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Haha, yeah, a big highschool with more work to do, some ways better, some ways worse. I went in to college thinking it was going to be so awesome, but it really is not that much different, so don't get your hopes up.
There is of course a much better selection of girls, and there are more mature women, but there are also many more slu-tty women it seems.... the alcohol plays a huge role. Therefore I just can't stand 50% of the women at my college.
The sorority girls are stupid and bit-chy.
Basically, if you don't like to drink alcohol, and you don't like people who drink it all the time, there isn't a hel-luva lot to do for fun in college, and there aren't a hel-luva lot of people who know anything other than "party."

As far as cliques, there aren't really any of those, which is good. That is the best part of college: everyone is open to meeting new people, and many of the women are lookin'. Everything is more relaxed yes.
I have also noticed, at least at my college, that most women put on some weight while in college. I guess all that fu-ckin drinking gets to them. And once again, many of the THE WOMEN ARE EASY (cough*especially sorority girls*cough)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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