"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Superman X

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Nice thread, lots of stuff I wouldn't have thought of bringing.

Oak -- My parents, my grandparents and I are each paying for a third of my college costs. I think its pretty fair, and plus I have a feeling my parents will pay off my student loans if I graduate with good grades.

A few questions for you college-folk:

1. Of course they gave us the zero-tolerance party line at orientation, what actually happens if you get busted with alcohol/weed in your room? It seems like such a common thing, I can't imagine them doing very much about it.

2. Oxide, about the apartment thing, is socializing harder when you're not emerged in an enviroment with hundreds of other college kids around you? I know an apartment would be sick for parties and just for bringing girls back to, but I'm not sure if I want to sacrfice meeting a crapload of people for that.

-Dan
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Superman X
1. Of course they gave us the zero-tolerance party line at orientation, what actually happens if you get busted with alcohol/weed in your room? It seems like such a common thing, I can't imagine them doing very much about it.
They usually take it away. If they are real *sses, they will write you up to housing and you'll have a meeting. Normally they won't care/bust you anyway.
 

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Originally posted by Superman X

A few questions for you college-folk:

1. Of course they gave us the zero-tolerance party line at orientation, what actually happens if you get busted with alcohol/weed in your room? It seems like such a common thing, I can't imagine them doing very much about it.

2. Oxide, about the apartment thing, is socializing harder when you're not emerged in an enviroment with hundreds of other college kids around you? I know an apartment would be sick for parties and just for bringing girls back to, but I'm not sure if I want to sacrfice meeting a crapload of people for that.

-Dan

1. Depends on your college. In general, private schools are more lenient than state schools. Where I go, alcohol was completely ignored but most RAs wouldn't hesitate to bust your for weed. Ask some upperclassmen to find out exactly how strictly things are enforced.

2. Yes. I would recommend you live in dorms at least for freshman year, and then go off campus in your later years.
 

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depends man. i am very open by nature, so i got to know as many people as i could.. everywhere, gym, library, parties, outdoors.. so basically when i go though my school i see someone i know quite often. I didnt live in the dorms first semester, although i think it would be a very interesting experience..
there are definite negatives to living in the dorms - usually MORE expenisve than an apartment.. smaller, really hot in summer, hotter in the winter, roommate right there..not much privacy, public showers.. but the amount of people you meet/activites your dorms do are quite fun.

A lot of people will try to be "cool" and chill in their friend's apartments instead of dorms.. just a thought.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
i'm incredibly lucky and fortunate.

My parents are actually paying my whole way. So i'm incredibly thankful.
Damn youre lucky. My parents are paying for me to go to a community college but i wanna transfer next year. Its retarded cause ill have to get my own loans and there not gonna help at all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeah thats tough if they dont wanna help with the loans

my college is 30g's a year...here is the breakdown:

30g's a year
-6000 (merit scholarship from my grades/sat score)
-8000 (NJ Class state loan)
-2500 (stafford loan)
so thats about 14g left to pay...my parents are gonna pay that outa pocket but im gonna pay them back when i graduate
 
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