"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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College Social Circle Girlfriend...What To Do When It's Over

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Fourth year in college, about to break up with girlfriend because I feel like its getting stale. Problem is she is friends with all of my good friends because we have been together for 2 years.

How would you guys deal with this situation? She is an amazing girl but I am bored and want the single life. I am assuming I will see her around a lot, and its probably going to be awkward when we end up at the same house to hang out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't be ass be upfront and expand your social circle.

This also the reason that I always try to tell college people that having a serious relationship in college is a bad idea.
 
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Thanks for the advice. I let out a big sigh after reading that.

These are my reasons for breaking up:

1. I want to meet new friends
2. I want to go explore the world on my own
3. I want to experience college without anything holding me back
4. I am not as attracted to her any more
5. I used to not be able to keep my hands off of her, now I barely want sex twice a week
6. Another guy could easily treat her with more care and love.

Some of these reasons seem like they will hurt her REAL bad. She could barely breathe when I told her I thought we were getting in to the routine of things.
 
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