"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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College Social Circle Girlfriend...What To Do When It's Over

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Fourth year in college, about to break up with girlfriend because I feel like its getting stale. Problem is she is friends with all of my good friends because we have been together for 2 years.

How would you guys deal with this situation? She is an amazing girl but I am bored and want the single life. I am assuming I will see her around a lot, and its probably going to be awkward when we end up at the same house to hang out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't be ass be upfront and expand your social circle.

This also the reason that I always try to tell college people that having a serious relationship in college is a bad idea.
 
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Thanks for the advice. I let out a big sigh after reading that.

These are my reasons for breaking up:

1. I want to meet new friends
2. I want to go explore the world on my own
3. I want to experience college without anything holding me back
4. I am not as attracted to her any more
5. I used to not be able to keep my hands off of her, now I barely want sex twice a week
6. Another guy could easily treat her with more care and love.

Some of these reasons seem like they will hurt her REAL bad. She could barely breathe when I told her I thought we were getting in to the routine of things.
 
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