"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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COllege Party Procedures

Thatfeel21

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Need an opinion on something from my truly experienced ppl in college...when

ur at a college party gaming up chicks, is it better to go for the f-close that

nite rather than getting their number and trying to fukc them later on?

I have no probs getting numbers at parties but when i call the chicks a few

days later or watever i get no where...im thinking its easier just to be

like "hey, you should come back to my place blah blah blah" rather than "hey i

gotta go put your number in my phone"

thoughts...?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Hey man, im doing college parties right now(still trying to succeed in them). I'd say the best option def is the fclose and a number should only be the last resort.

most of the # at a party might be flakes because the girl prolly doesn't remember u, or her attraction died down as it was in the heat of the moment. I'd do fclose flat out :)
 

Thatfeel21

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thats what im mentally working on..usually what ends up happening is i get to drunk and actually forget to bring them to isolation..i always hear stories in the morning from my boys like "damn man why didnt u **** that chick last nite!?" :confused:
 
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