"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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COllege Party Procedures

Thatfeel21

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Need an opinion on something from my truly experienced ppl in college...when

ur at a college party gaming up chicks, is it better to go for the f-close that

nite rather than getting their number and trying to fukc them later on?

I have no probs getting numbers at parties but when i call the chicks a few

days later or watever i get no where...im thinking its easier just to be

like "hey, you should come back to my place blah blah blah" rather than "hey i

gotta go put your number in my phone"

thoughts...?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Hey man, im doing college parties right now(still trying to succeed in them). I'd say the best option def is the fclose and a number should only be the last resort.

most of the # at a party might be flakes because the girl prolly doesn't remember u, or her attraction died down as it was in the heat of the moment. I'd do fclose flat out :)
 

Thatfeel21

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thats what im mentally working on..usually what ends up happening is i get to drunk and actually forget to bring them to isolation..i always hear stories in the morning from my boys like "damn man why didnt u **** that chick last nite!?" :confused:
 
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