"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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College: Life of the Party?

Patrick124

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I just recently graduated from highschool, and will be heading off to college down in North Carolina in 2 weeks time. I'm extremely excited, much like a shark dropped in a tank of live bait lol. New girls to game n new friends to meet, should be interesting.
In highschool I've been pretty good with the women, got 3 notches on my belt and dropped my 1 year relationship about 4 months ago. HB 8.5, a year older than I, fighting to forget her.

Ive been out of the game pretty much since then. No one is single/trying to go on date since we all leave soon. that kind of ruins my style...because I have one major hole in my game; I cant game girls in a group bigger than about 6-7. I cant assert myself as the Alpha and entertain the whole group at that point, its really weird. I almost feel out of my comfort zone and just stop trying, and its a terrible habit. See I'm *extremely* good on one-on-one situations and in small groups I'm amazin as well. I've hooked up with eveyr girl I've ever gone on a date with lol.
I'm jsut wondering how you would overcome this? I need to transplant that part of me into the party-side of myself. and do it FAST. lol.
anyone?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Someone Much cooler

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I'm actaully the life of the party @ any college party i got to. Usually they aren't even the school i attend. Sadly, alot of the popularity and being the alphamale has to do with drugs, sports, money and status. As a freshman if your not a frat boy, a rich boy/ dealer, or a jock this will be hard. It sometimes helps to get cool with the dj or even better yet be the dj.
 

Roulette

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One thing: entertaining the whole group is just being a dancing monkey. Let them entertain you.
 
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