"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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College: Life of the Party?

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Patrick124

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I just recently graduated from highschool, and will be heading off to college down in North Carolina in 2 weeks time. I'm extremely excited, much like a shark dropped in a tank of live bait lol. New girls to game n new friends to meet, should be interesting.
In highschool I've been pretty good with the women, got 3 notches on my belt and dropped my 1 year relationship about 4 months ago. HB 8.5, a year older than I, fighting to forget her.

Ive been out of the game pretty much since then. No one is single/trying to go on date since we all leave soon. that kind of ruins my style...because I have one major hole in my game; I cant game girls in a group bigger than about 6-7. I cant assert myself as the Alpha and entertain the whole group at that point, its really weird. I almost feel out of my comfort zone and just stop trying, and its a terrible habit. See I'm *extremely* good on one-on-one situations and in small groups I'm amazin as well. I've hooked up with eveyr girl I've ever gone on a date with lol.
I'm jsut wondering how you would overcome this? I need to transplant that part of me into the party-side of myself. and do it FAST. lol.
anyone?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm actaully the life of the party @ any college party i got to. Usually they aren't even the school i attend. Sadly, alot of the popularity and being the alphamale has to do with drugs, sports, money and status. As a freshman if your not a frat boy, a rich boy/ dealer, or a jock this will be hard. It sometimes helps to get cool with the dj or even better yet be the dj.
 
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One thing: entertaining the whole group is just being a dancing monkey. Let them entertain you.
 
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