"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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College gym or regular?

_sideways_

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New town, new gym.
Found a nice laid back one with outdoor pool. No fuss weights, $20 a month.
Then found a college gym available to the community. $45 a month.

On the one hand, my future might not allow me to have another gym with 95% co-eds.
On the other hand, $20 is a steal.

Help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Duke

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try both for a while. decide later which one meets your needs the best.
 

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try both for a while. decide later which one meets your needs the best.
I suppose I can try the cheaper one with the outdoor pool during the summer and go to the college one when the kids go back to school.
 

fanatic22

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College gyms suck and gym game isnt easy. If you have the balls to approach in the gym go for it but youre probably gonna end up paying the extra $25 for less equipment just to watch girls with overear headphones squat. Personally I prefer my gyms to be male heavy so I can focus on my gainz brah
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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New town, new gym.
Found a nice laid back one with outdoor pool. No fuss weights, $20 a month.
Then found a college gym available to the community. $45 a month.

On the one hand, my future might not allow me to have another gym with 95% co-eds.
On the other hand, $20 is a steal.

Help.
Pick a place that suits your lift lifestyle. It's bonus for high volume women. Most gyms are full of cratered smv and jump offs.
 

Knight of Roses

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Who cares? Dont make decisions on where you think you'll pick up b1tches. Get jacked first, then you can pick up girls anywhere you go. Once I got jacked, my confidence shot up, my game leaned on a more natural douchebag frame, and girls just couldnt get enough of my biceps.
 
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