"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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College gym or regular?

_sideways_

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New town, new gym.
Found a nice laid back one with outdoor pool. No fuss weights, $20 a month.
Then found a college gym available to the community. $45 a month.

On the one hand, my future might not allow me to have another gym with 95% co-eds.
On the other hand, $20 is a steal.

Help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Duke

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try both for a while. decide later which one meets your needs the best.
 

_sideways_

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try both for a while. decide later which one meets your needs the best.
I suppose I can try the cheaper one with the outdoor pool during the summer and go to the college one when the kids go back to school.
 

fanatic22

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College gyms suck and gym game isnt easy. If you have the balls to approach in the gym go for it but youre probably gonna end up paying the extra $25 for less equipment just to watch girls with overear headphones squat. Personally I prefer my gyms to be male heavy so I can focus on my gainz brah
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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New town, new gym.
Found a nice laid back one with outdoor pool. No fuss weights, $20 a month.
Then found a college gym available to the community. $45 a month.

On the one hand, my future might not allow me to have another gym with 95% co-eds.
On the other hand, $20 is a steal.

Help.
Pick a place that suits your lift lifestyle. It's bonus for high volume women. Most gyms are full of cratered smv and jump offs.
 

Knight of Roses

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Who cares? Dont make decisions on where you think you'll pick up b1tches. Get jacked first, then you can pick up girls anywhere you go. Once I got jacked, my confidence shot up, my game leaned on a more natural douchebag frame, and girls just couldnt get enough of my biceps.
 
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