"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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COLLEGE GIRLS ARE biatches

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i think that college is corrupting the minds of SOME girls, and gets them to think that they are better than men and smarter than everyone. They all want to be independent women and live their own lives and tend to act like baitches.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what ever happened to the old fashioned gal who would cook you dinner and take care of you. now theyre so demanding
 
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LOL.. You sound like one bitter man, dude!

Don't blame college. Blame society. Even since the middle-ages, society has been trying to ignore human nature and decided that men & women should not have sex unless married and crap like that. I mean, before all of that, people were having sex with anyone all over the place.

Stop worrying about these things. You will not be able to change that. Just know in your mind that no matter WHAT society says, human nature is STILL telling us otherwise. And this is exactly why girls are saying they want a nice guy, will they fall head-over-heels with the tough bad guy.
 
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something I learned over the last 3 years:

Most guys don't realize they are AFC's and most girls don't realize that they are not the best thing since sliced bread UNTIL THEY LEAVE COLLEGE and get in the real world.


Think about it, when you are in school, you a) have access to thousands of people your age on a daily basis, and b) you really don't have a choice but to get to know others, at least to some extent. You are foced to communicate with other people and learn more aobut others.

HOWEVER, a couple of months after you get out of college, you realize that no one really gives a damn about you. If you are a guy who has been an AFC, it's a rude awakeing. You wonder why you don't have a GF and have not dated since college... It's because you never approcached women, and now that you are in the real world, you are extremely lonely.

Women wonder why men are not drooling over them as they use to (at least the average ones)... It's because there are alot more women in the real world then in your 3,000 student campus had.

I really just chuckle at alot of the college guys my age who think they are so smooth. That's why it's important to not take anything a women says to you personal...

I have alot of sucess with older women, simply becasue men are afraid to approach women on a constant basis. Younger women I get looks from, but I Really don't waste my time.
 
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