"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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COLLEGE GIRLS ARE biatches

gatarado

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i think that college is corrupting the minds of SOME girls, and gets them to think that they are better than men and smarter than everyone. They all want to be independent women and live their own lives and tend to act like baitches.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what ever happened to the old fashioned gal who would cook you dinner and take care of you. now theyre so demanding
 

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LOL.. You sound like one bitter man, dude!

Don't blame college. Blame society. Even since the middle-ages, society has been trying to ignore human nature and decided that men & women should not have sex unless married and crap like that. I mean, before all of that, people were having sex with anyone all over the place.

Stop worrying about these things. You will not be able to change that. Just know in your mind that no matter WHAT society says, human nature is STILL telling us otherwise. And this is exactly why girls are saying they want a nice guy, will they fall head-over-heels with the tough bad guy.
 

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something I learned over the last 3 years:

Most guys don't realize they are AFC's and most girls don't realize that they are not the best thing since sliced bread UNTIL THEY LEAVE COLLEGE and get in the real world.


Think about it, when you are in school, you a) have access to thousands of people your age on a daily basis, and b) you really don't have a choice but to get to know others, at least to some extent. You are foced to communicate with other people and learn more aobut others.

HOWEVER, a couple of months after you get out of college, you realize that no one really gives a damn about you. If you are a guy who has been an AFC, it's a rude awakeing. You wonder why you don't have a GF and have not dated since college... It's because you never approcached women, and now that you are in the real world, you are extremely lonely.

Women wonder why men are not drooling over them as they use to (at least the average ones)... It's because there are alot more women in the real world then in your 3,000 student campus had.

I really just chuckle at alot of the college guys my age who think they are so smooth. That's why it's important to not take anything a women says to you personal...

I have alot of sucess with older women, simply becasue men are afraid to approach women on a constant basis. Younger women I get looks from, but I Really don't waste my time.
 
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