something I learned over the last 3 years:
Most guys don't realize they are AFC's and most girls don't realize that they are not the best thing since sliced bread UNTIL THEY LEAVE COLLEGE and get in the real world.
Think about it, when you are in school, you a) have access to thousands of people your age on a daily basis, and b) you really don't have a choice but to get to know others, at least to some extent. You are foced to communicate with other people and learn more aobut others.
HOWEVER, a couple of months after you get out of college, you realize that no one really gives a damn about you. If you are a guy who has been an AFC, it's a rude awakeing. You wonder why you don't have a GF and have not dated since college... It's because you never approcached women, and now that you are in the real world, you are extremely lonely.
Women wonder why men are not drooling over them as they use to (at least the average ones)... It's because there are alot more women in the real world then in your 3,000 student campus had.
I really just chuckle at alot of the college guys my age who think they are so smooth. That's why it's important to not take anything a women says to you personal...
I have alot of sucess with older women, simply becasue men are afraid to approach women on a constant basis. Younger women I get looks from, but I Really don't waste my time.