Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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College Girl makes Powerpoint ''Lay Report" - Lulz inside.

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Check this out. http://jezebel.com/5652114/college-girls-power-point-fvck-list-goes-viral


The author told us this morning that she never intended for the presentation to go beyond the three friends she sent it to in May, but that recently one friend (who has since admitted to it) forwarded it to another, and it went viral. It has since been sent to multiple listservs, including fraternity listservs.

She pointed out, as did our original tipster, that frats make lists like this all the time. Still, she said repeatedly, "I regret it with all my heart. I would never intentionally hurt the people that are mentioned on that."

She has since deleted or blocked all her social media profiles — the latter-day equivalent of going into hiding. Duke's Dean of Students called her recently, the author told us, to check in. We contacted the Dean of Students, who declined to comment.

The subjects' social prominence as students has helped make this an even bigger deal. "The people that are named in it are the kinds of people that everyone wants to be or be with," the author said. "The top dogs, or whatever."

We're not condoning putting any of these sorts of things in writing or within range of the Internet, especially when using the real names of your partners. But you know what? Here's another reminder that women can be as flip, aggressive, or acquisitive about sex as men can. And there's nothing wrong with that, as long as all parties are consenting. (Of course, these guys didn't consent to have their performances publicly evaluated, but there you go. Again, people, do not put it in writing.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Here's another reminder that women can be as flip, aggressive, or acquisitive about sex as men can. And there's nothing wrong with that"

I love it when they try to force their values down your throat.
 

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Darth said:
"Here's another reminder that women can be as flip, aggressive, or acquisitive about sex as men can. And there's nothing wrong with that"

I love it when they try to force their values down your throat.
Yup, it's a joke.

Nobody is debating whether she was wrong or right to make a ''F*ck-List". We do the samething here, with our FRs and LRs. They're so quick to force the gender-values when this sh*t happens. But what we don't do is reveal the 'subjects' names or put weird-ass evaluation points beside the subject or target as we call it in the community LOL. This could be a reality shatter for the Looks Don't Matter peeps on Sosuave, as she readily points out that looks DID matter, even going far as to say size and performance mattered too, what the guys hair felt and looked like, his eyes/brows, his facial structure and jawline. The most common evaluator was "Looks", "Status", "Sporty", "Humour", "Performance" and "Entertainment"
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
Yup, it's a joke.

Nobody is debating whether she was wrong or right to make a ''F*ck-List". We do the samething here, with our FRs and LRs. They're so quick to force the gender-values when this sh*t happens. But what we don't do is reveal the 'subjects' names or put weird-ass evaluation points beside the subject or target as we call it in the community LOL. This could be a reality shatter for the Looks Don't Matter peeps on Sosuave, as she readily points out that looks DID matter, even going far as to say size and performance mattered too, what the guys hair felt and looked like, his eyes/brows, his facial structure and jawline. The most common evaluator was "Looks", "Status", "Sporty", "Humour", "Performance" and "Entertainment"
all that matters is beasting
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I first heard about this as I was watching the news a few hours ago.

To me,I don't really care that some girl made some list of guys she slept with. It doesn't shock or surprise me to hear of a girl doing something like that.


It's odd that it got posted on the internet for everyone to see,but then that wasn't the girl's fault. She sent it to a friend,who sent it to a friend,and then bam..it's on the internet.


What I like about it is that we get to look inside of the mind of a woman talking about guys and sex,and she's being 100% COMPLETELY HONEST.



She's not saying what she thinks people want to hear,she's not trying to water down her comments to avoid hurting someone's feelings,she's not saying one thing when in reality something else is true in order to avoid looking like a slvt. She's not saying what's "socially acceptable" or what "politically correct".



She's just being flat out raw and honest. A lot of the things she said coincide with teachings and advice frequently given here on the forum.



Granted....it may be embarassing for some of the guys on the list if they realize that they're one of the guys she was speaking about and they received a negative review,lol,but I think it's cool to be able to get past all of the bull and fakeness and see the real TRUTH of what a girl thinks and likes about guys and sex.
 
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