"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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College Girl makes Powerpoint ''Lay Report" - Lulz inside.

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Check this out. http://jezebel.com/5652114/college-girls-power-point-fvck-list-goes-viral


The author told us this morning that she never intended for the presentation to go beyond the three friends she sent it to in May, but that recently one friend (who has since admitted to it) forwarded it to another, and it went viral. It has since been sent to multiple listservs, including fraternity listservs.

She pointed out, as did our original tipster, that frats make lists like this all the time. Still, she said repeatedly, "I regret it with all my heart. I would never intentionally hurt the people that are mentioned on that."

She has since deleted or blocked all her social media profiles — the latter-day equivalent of going into hiding. Duke's Dean of Students called her recently, the author told us, to check in. We contacted the Dean of Students, who declined to comment.

The subjects' social prominence as students has helped make this an even bigger deal. "The people that are named in it are the kinds of people that everyone wants to be or be with," the author said. "The top dogs, or whatever."

We're not condoning putting any of these sorts of things in writing or within range of the Internet, especially when using the real names of your partners. But you know what? Here's another reminder that women can be as flip, aggressive, or acquisitive about sex as men can. And there's nothing wrong with that, as long as all parties are consenting. (Of course, these guys didn't consent to have their performances publicly evaluated, but there you go. Again, people, do not put it in writing.)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Here's another reminder that women can be as flip, aggressive, or acquisitive about sex as men can. And there's nothing wrong with that"

I love it when they try to force their values down your throat.
 

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Darth said:
"Here's another reminder that women can be as flip, aggressive, or acquisitive about sex as men can. And there's nothing wrong with that"

I love it when they try to force their values down your throat.
Yup, it's a joke.

Nobody is debating whether she was wrong or right to make a ''F*ck-List". We do the samething here, with our FRs and LRs. They're so quick to force the gender-values when this sh*t happens. But what we don't do is reveal the 'subjects' names or put weird-ass evaluation points beside the subject or target as we call it in the community LOL. This could be a reality shatter for the Looks Don't Matter peeps on Sosuave, as she readily points out that looks DID matter, even going far as to say size and performance mattered too, what the guys hair felt and looked like, his eyes/brows, his facial structure and jawline. The most common evaluator was "Looks", "Status", "Sporty", "Humour", "Performance" and "Entertainment"
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
Yup, it's a joke.

Nobody is debating whether she was wrong or right to make a ''F*ck-List". We do the samething here, with our FRs and LRs. They're so quick to force the gender-values when this sh*t happens. But what we don't do is reveal the 'subjects' names or put weird-ass evaluation points beside the subject or target as we call it in the community LOL. This could be a reality shatter for the Looks Don't Matter peeps on Sosuave, as she readily points out that looks DID matter, even going far as to say size and performance mattered too, what the guys hair felt and looked like, his eyes/brows, his facial structure and jawline. The most common evaluator was "Looks", "Status", "Sporty", "Humour", "Performance" and "Entertainment"
all that matters is beasting
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I first heard about this as I was watching the news a few hours ago.

To me,I don't really care that some girl made some list of guys she slept with. It doesn't shock or surprise me to hear of a girl doing something like that.


It's odd that it got posted on the internet for everyone to see,but then that wasn't the girl's fault. She sent it to a friend,who sent it to a friend,and then bam..it's on the internet.


What I like about it is that we get to look inside of the mind of a woman talking about guys and sex,and she's being 100% COMPLETELY HONEST.



She's not saying what she thinks people want to hear,she's not trying to water down her comments to avoid hurting someone's feelings,she's not saying one thing when in reality something else is true in order to avoid looking like a slvt. She's not saying what's "socially acceptable" or what "politically correct".



She's just being flat out raw and honest. A lot of the things she said coincide with teachings and advice frequently given here on the forum.



Granted....it may be embarassing for some of the guys on the list if they realize that they're one of the guys she was speaking about and they received a negative review,lol,but I think it's cool to be able to get past all of the bull and fakeness and see the real TRUTH of what a girl thinks and likes about guys and sex.
 
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