"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So let's say in college, I see some girl I'm interested in and I talk to her. That's not too bad. But then what do you do if you want to see her again?

For example, in a crowded lecture hall, I sit next to a girl and talk. Before the class lets out what should I say if i want to see her again? Same goes for student orgs and random outings. The reason why i ask is because at a large university, it is hard to spot the same girl twice and talk to her again unless you are REALLY looking for her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That's pretty easy.

I'm not sure if your of drinking age, but the best move is to just ask the girl what bar she is going to on the weekends. Sometimes you don't even have to ask them, just if you hear her say she is going to X bar, appear there with a group of your friends.

This move works pretty well. I know because I went to a school with 40,000 people. I got a ton of a$$ from girls I met in class. That was my bread and butter when I was in college.

My advice is to act alpha in class too. Come late, sit in a leaned-back position, laugh loud and raise your hand and say entertaining things. That will lay a nice base for you. If you're in attractive guy, that will help the chicks notice you as well.

I had a lot of lecture game when I was at school. It's not hard to pull off.
 
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i am not of drinking age and live on campus. in lecture, i was thinking along the lines of "hey, so..what do you think of this class so far? pretty tough huh?" to get some talk going and seeing if shes receptive or something i can work with.

then when class lets out: "wow, i thought this class would never end..i need a break. hey, if you dont have class right now, you wanna go get something to eat?"

how is that? seems pretty starightforward
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have a place to go that you know. She'll never know you have been there a million times. I use a Thai restaurant as my base of operations. I went there for a long time without any women.

Someone in college should do something more fun than that. Suggest something active you enjoy. If you are at a loss for words the action will be enough. Don't worry if she doesn't get interested. You can't make her be and you shouldn't try. Just have fun doing what you like (honestly you do like being with her but don't let her know that right away).
 
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