"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So let's say in college, I see some girl I'm interested in and I talk to her. That's not too bad. But then what do you do if you want to see her again?

For example, in a crowded lecture hall, I sit next to a girl and talk. Before the class lets out what should I say if i want to see her again? Same goes for student orgs and random outings. The reason why i ask is because at a large university, it is hard to spot the same girl twice and talk to her again unless you are REALLY looking for her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That's pretty easy.

I'm not sure if your of drinking age, but the best move is to just ask the girl what bar she is going to on the weekends. Sometimes you don't even have to ask them, just if you hear her say she is going to X bar, appear there with a group of your friends.

This move works pretty well. I know because I went to a school with 40,000 people. I got a ton of a$$ from girls I met in class. That was my bread and butter when I was in college.

My advice is to act alpha in class too. Come late, sit in a leaned-back position, laugh loud and raise your hand and say entertaining things. That will lay a nice base for you. If you're in attractive guy, that will help the chicks notice you as well.

I had a lot of lecture game when I was at school. It's not hard to pull off.
 
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i am not of drinking age and live on campus. in lecture, i was thinking along the lines of "hey, so..what do you think of this class so far? pretty tough huh?" to get some talk going and seeing if shes receptive or something i can work with.

then when class lets out: "wow, i thought this class would never end..i need a break. hey, if you dont have class right now, you wanna go get something to eat?"

how is that? seems pretty starightforward
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Have a place to go that you know. She'll never know you have been there a million times. I use a Thai restaurant as my base of operations. I went there for a long time without any women.

Someone in college should do something more fun than that. Suggest something active you enjoy. If you are at a loss for words the action will be enough. Don't worry if she doesn't get interested. You can't make her be and you shouldn't try. Just have fun doing what you like (honestly you do like being with her but don't let her know that right away).
 
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