"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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College Game Scenario: Need Help

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I'm gonna pose a scenario that I find myself in VERY frequently and need advice on. You initiate a convo with an HB sitting near you in a large lecture room, and you hit it off quite well--she's laughing, good vibes, etc.

The next day you arrive to the same class and spot her sitting in a completely different area of the lecture hall. In this situation, would you get up and go all the way over to her and sit next to her in her new seat? Or does this show desperation (like your chasing her)? Or do you sit in the same spot as before, accepting the fact that you won't be able to talk to her anymore.

Let's assume that this class is the only time you see the girl.

Would what you guys do??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There's nothing wrong w/ sitting next to her that's just where you happened to want to sit and if you already had a good vibe, continue to interact w/ her or the realtionship will DIE. I doubt she saw you already sitting (did she?) and if she did so what? For all she knows ur sitting next to her b/c you can see the lecture better. Needy depends on how you go about it *good body language is a plus. :up:
 
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