"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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College Game Scenario: Need Help

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I'm gonna pose a scenario that I find myself in VERY frequently and need advice on. You initiate a convo with an HB sitting near you in a large lecture room, and you hit it off quite well--she's laughing, good vibes, etc.

The next day you arrive to the same class and spot her sitting in a completely different area of the lecture hall. In this situation, would you get up and go all the way over to her and sit next to her in her new seat? Or does this show desperation (like your chasing her)? Or do you sit in the same spot as before, accepting the fact that you won't be able to talk to her anymore.

Let's assume that this class is the only time you see the girl.

Would what you guys do??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There's nothing wrong w/ sitting next to her that's just where you happened to want to sit and if you already had a good vibe, continue to interact w/ her or the realtionship will DIE. I doubt she saw you already sitting (did she?) and if she did so what? For all she knows ur sitting next to her b/c you can see the lecture better. Needy depends on how you go about it *good body language is a plus. :up:
 
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