Dhoulmagus
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You are delt a hand and there's nothing much you can do about it.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lol is this some small yankee collegeVice said:dafuq you talking about son.
me and Poop1337 just mildly tore up the local college.
stop being a little b*tch.
YOU are in control of your social life. your finances. your fitness.
YOU are in control of which college or university you decide to go to.
i would LOVE to play a game of poker with as many variables under my control as in college.
You've obvious never played poker. A skilled player with a closed ended straight could be win a pot over a dude with flush if he knows what he's doing. How many girls do you approach in a week bruh?Dhoulmagus said:You are delt a hand and there's nothing much you can do about it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Only one hand dudeMaximus Rex said:You've obvious never played poker. A skilled player with a closed ended straight could be win a pot over a dude with flush if he knows what he's doing. How many girls do you approach in a week bruh?
that sounds like high school tbh, not collegeDhoulmagus said:You are delt a hand and there's nothing much you can do about it.