Dhoulmagus
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You are delt a hand and there's nothing much you can do about it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lol is this some small yankee collegeVice said:dafuq you talking about son.
me and Poop1337 just mildly tore up the local college.
stop being a little b*tch.
YOU are in control of your social life. your finances. your fitness.
YOU are in control of which college or university you decide to go to.
i would LOVE to play a game of poker with as many variables under my control as in college.
You've obvious never played poker. A skilled player with a closed ended straight could be win a pot over a dude with flush if he knows what he's doing. How many girls do you approach in a week bruh?Dhoulmagus said:You are delt a hand and there's nothing much you can do about it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Only one hand dudeMaximus Rex said:You've obvious never played poker. A skilled player with a closed ended straight could be win a pot over a dude with flush if he knows what he's doing. How many girls do you approach in a week bruh?
that sounds like high school tbh, not collegeDhoulmagus said:You are delt a hand and there's nothing much you can do about it.