"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
college dudes: how you dress
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Paintballguy
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Cheiradawg
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CableLight
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Lazy Day: Scrubs and a T-shirt
Important Day: Jeans, button-up, long sleeve collar shirt.
oakraiderz2
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Im with that guy.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Goin out to a party, it's usually my 3 dollar thrift store blazer
D), a t-shirt or a button up shirt with a t-shirt under it, and some nicer pants with a belt. Everyone always says I look snazzy with the blazer, and yet it's the cheapest thing I have on at the time.
I dont have 1 dress code... i mix and match all the time... from casual (jeans and t-shirt) to smart-ish (smart white jeans with a button-up shirt)... I like to make alot of changes allt he time, weather its my clothing, my hair, bling bling (jewelry Eg: rings, necklace, bracelet, etc)
Laterz...
Tha Realnezz
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I don't know why these guy dress up for class.They worry about that more than the women.
...Seriously. They are more dolled up guys around here than women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have like 7 button up shirts too, i own more of those then i own t shirts for real.
But its not like im sporting em all buttoned up to the collar and tucked in, thats lame.
I usually rock the buttonup shirts with the first 2 button undone, sleeves rolled up, and untucked, with maybe one of the front parts of the shirt tucked behind my flashy belt buckle so i can blind all the haters.
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No offense bro, but you are gonna look like a copy of everybody else. EVERYBODY dresses like this heh.