"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
college dudes: how you dress
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Paintballguy
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Cheiradawg
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CableLight
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Lazy Day: Scrubs and a T-shirt
Important Day: Jeans, button-up, long sleeve collar shirt.
oakraiderz2
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Im with that guy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ShizamDaMan
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Goin out to a party, it's usually my 3 dollar thrift store blazer
D), a t-shirt or a button up shirt with a t-shirt under it, and some nicer pants with a belt. Everyone always says I look snazzy with the blazer, and yet it's the cheapest thing I have on at the time.
I dont have 1 dress code... i mix and match all the time... from casual (jeans and t-shirt) to smart-ish (smart white jeans with a button-up shirt)... I like to make alot of changes allt he time, weather its my clothing, my hair, bling bling (jewelry Eg: rings, necklace, bracelet, etc)
Laterz...
Tha Realnezz
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I don't know why these guy dress up for class.They worry about that more than the women.
...Seriously. They are more dolled up guys around here than women.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have like 7 button up shirts too, i own more of those then i own t shirts for real.
But its not like im sporting em all buttoned up to the collar and tucked in, thats lame.
I usually rock the buttonup shirts with the first 2 button undone, sleeves rolled up, and untucked, with maybe one of the front parts of the shirt tucked behind my flashy belt buckle so i can blind all the haters.
MindOverMatter
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No offense bro, but you are gonna look like a copy of everybody else. EVERYBODY dresses like this heh.