"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First post on these forums but I've been reading all this sort of stuff for the past six months or so, but hi anyway. :)

Okay today I opened a girl in the library (HB7.5/8.0) using my crap phone as a prop since hers was equally as bad so I did some negging and we had a laugh about how bad they were. I then moved onto her college subjects (we're both 17) then for about twenty minutes she just talked about how she wants to go to Africa next year and her feelings etc. about the whole place from when she last went and to what she's expecting for when she goes next year.
I didn't say much at all during the whole thing, apart from the odd comment here and there which she laughed at every time, just discussing feelings about how it puts everything in life into perspective, felt so weird to be patterning and have it feel natural. :) Just played it cool and leant back the whole way through. Then it was a lesson time. I managed to email close and she was really receptive and gave it me right away (said she wanted to send me pictures of when she was last in Africa) with no hesitations and told me thanks for talking with her and she looks forward to me contacting her, haha.... nice, just happened so quickly.

Just wondered where I should take the game from here on? Don't want to get stuck in the friends category - at the moment I have a lot of mystery about me and want to maintain that to some degree. Likelihood of seeing her out college is remote as we live far away from each other and I don't have a car, so if we ever see each other it'll be in the library again.

Thanks in advance and keep up the good posts guys. :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You should have gotten her digits too in my opinion. Just ask them while they are writing their email to write there number as well. They'll do it most likely, can't see why not.

Your fine, just ask her for some coffee or something. You got her talking, you got mystery, you made her laugh, your doing good. Do this, get number, wait two days maybe three, call, setup date. Hell, you can even ask her if you see her in the library again to go get coffee. Risky, but it might work. Depends on how good the the next time you see her is going. Or You can send her an email asking her to get some coffee and have some stimulating conversation.
 

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I managed to email close
Is this post a joke? Dawg you already ****ed up and the fact she wants to send u pictures of her having fun in africa while she's probably out there ****ing some other guy makes it seem like ur already in the friend zone. NEXT!
 

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Haha cheers for the input guys, I'll email her tomorrow for some more stimulating conversation (Mac ;)), but we breakup for Christmas this Friday, so if I talk to her this week I'm gonna have to set something up over the holidays otherwise it's zero action for moi until after . . .
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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