"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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College bookstore PU question

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Since i'm out of college, i have a very low exposure to hot chicks. I was thinking of attempting PU at a college bookstore. It's an open store so anyone can walk in. The aspect of this idea that I worry about is having more than one potential target in my PU radius. Say I walk into the store and see 3 chicks of interest standing looking at some stuff at different locations. If I approach anyone of them, other potential targets may overhear my PU attempt and if I do or don't succeed they might not give me a light of day if I try to PU them. Because they would know my intent to PU.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol...you worry too much. I dunno how you can get rejected. If the convo going good and she flirting then you just ask for her #. If she being cold, then don't bother move on to the next. Ask for the e-mail first, because it low risk of rejection. If another women see you, she will be impressed and think your the man. Just be careful, they tend to like to test you by saying your a player and stuff, but don't give in. They want a player, just have fun. Also alot of people go in the store that day that you might never see again.
 

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My major doesnt attract a lot of females (Computer Programming). There was only four chicks in my major all very hideous.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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