"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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College bookstore PU question

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Since i'm out of college, i have a very low exposure to hot chicks. I was thinking of attempting PU at a college bookstore. It's an open store so anyone can walk in. The aspect of this idea that I worry about is having more than one potential target in my PU radius. Say I walk into the store and see 3 chicks of interest standing looking at some stuff at different locations. If I approach anyone of them, other potential targets may overhear my PU attempt and if I do or don't succeed they might not give me a light of day if I try to PU them. Because they would know my intent to PU.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol...you worry too much. I dunno how you can get rejected. If the convo going good and she flirting then you just ask for her #. If she being cold, then don't bother move on to the next. Ask for the e-mail first, because it low risk of rejection. If another women see you, she will be impressed and think your the man. Just be careful, they tend to like to test you by saying your a player and stuff, but don't give in. They want a player, just have fun. Also alot of people go in the store that day that you might never see again.
 

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My major doesnt attract a lot of females (Computer Programming). There was only four chicks in my major all very hideous.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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