"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Elevenbravo

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Well just started at university of michigan and there are more good looking girls here than ive ever seen (country boy). But everyone here is unsociable. Nobody talks to each other and people are just focused on thier books.

How do you other college guys go about getting college girls? The only time I get alot of attention here is when im in my ROTC uniform. Are uniforms still attractive? And should I use that to my advantage?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The TallOne

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Use the uniform to your advantage.

How do I get the girls? I generally like to pick out the ones that I am in class with.

First, its easier, second, you can do a bit of conversation about the class you two are taking.
 

Bigsnake

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Most people in college don't mind talking especially early on when tests aren't an issue... Talk to people especially people in your class. They all want to know someone in their class so you better jump on it before other people do.

From what I've heard some girls still like uniforms.
 

squirrels

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Originally posted by Elevenbravo
Well just started at university of michigan and there are more good looking girls here than ive ever seen (country boy). But everyone here is unsociable. Nobody talks to each other and people are just focused on thier books.
No they're not...probably less sociable than you're used to as a "country boy," but many of them will take the opportunity to talk to you if you open them right. Experiment with it and project some social energy. I mean, if you see someone DEEPLY immersed in studying you may want to stay off, but I find it hard to believe that EVERYONE is "unsociable."
 

So pimp its scary

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To quote Easy-E - "College girls are easy"

Is there a student lounge on campus? For you lunch break, go to the caf, and each day ask to join a new group of people for lunch. Very easy to get to know people because there is no real pressure to start a conversation....

I've done it before, where I could not think of anything, and we were in silence eating for what felt like 5 minutes before the person finally started asking me questions... After a while though, I started to develop quite the reputation from some of the guys at school, who would comment, 'You are always talking to new women.' or 'that's awesome in class how you always ask the questions that everyone wants to know but not bad enough to actually ask.' Then, one day I was walking into my french class, I walked into the class beatboxing up untill I sat down (I beatbox pretty good)... that whole day I had people asking me how I did that.

Just do something outrageous that you never thought you could have done. You'll realize that no harm came from it... then do it again.

I could go on... college is a great time to meet chicks and get alot of sex. As long as you can balance chicks vs homework that is.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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