"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Elevenbravo

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Well just started at university of michigan and there are more good looking girls here than ive ever seen (country boy). But everyone here is unsociable. Nobody talks to each other and people are just focused on thier books.

How do you other college guys go about getting college girls? The only time I get alot of attention here is when im in my ROTC uniform. Are uniforms still attractive? And should I use that to my advantage?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The TallOne

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Use the uniform to your advantage.

How do I get the girls? I generally like to pick out the ones that I am in class with.

First, its easier, second, you can do a bit of conversation about the class you two are taking.
 

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Most people in college don't mind talking especially early on when tests aren't an issue... Talk to people especially people in your class. They all want to know someone in their class so you better jump on it before other people do.

From what I've heard some girls still like uniforms.
 

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Originally posted by Elevenbravo
Well just started at university of michigan and there are more good looking girls here than ive ever seen (country boy). But everyone here is unsociable. Nobody talks to each other and people are just focused on thier books.
No they're not...probably less sociable than you're used to as a "country boy," but many of them will take the opportunity to talk to you if you open them right. Experiment with it and project some social energy. I mean, if you see someone DEEPLY immersed in studying you may want to stay off, but I find it hard to believe that EVERYONE is "unsociable."
 

So pimp its scary

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To quote Easy-E - "College girls are easy"

Is there a student lounge on campus? For you lunch break, go to the caf, and each day ask to join a new group of people for lunch. Very easy to get to know people because there is no real pressure to start a conversation....

I've done it before, where I could not think of anything, and we were in silence eating for what felt like 5 minutes before the person finally started asking me questions... After a while though, I started to develop quite the reputation from some of the guys at school, who would comment, 'You are always talking to new women.' or 'that's awesome in class how you always ask the questions that everyone wants to know but not bad enough to actually ask.' Then, one day I was walking into my french class, I walked into the class beatboxing up untill I sat down (I beatbox pretty good)... that whole day I had people asking me how I did that.

Just do something outrageous that you never thought you could have done. You'll realize that no harm came from it... then do it again.

I could go on... college is a great time to meet chicks and get alot of sex. As long as you can balance chicks vs homework that is.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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