colleague is not taking my rejection too well

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so decided that office poon was out of bounds despite making out with her last thursday.

i tell her this evening that it was a mistake and that it is to go no further. she doesn't take it too well. she keeps on at me at how i have issues, how i made a mistake, how i'm scared.

at the end of the evening she goes to leave while i finish up but then changes her mind and waits for me. she's acting really clingy and needy now trying to get me to change my mind and the more she does this the less attractive i find her. i just want her to leave me alone now. but she won't.

yes i know. i made my bed. just damn glad we didn't sleep together! :moon:

 

[beatjunkie]

count your blessings. i was in a similar situation but the table got turned on me after i fell for her. now i hate my job.

you're absolutely doing the right thing. keep your business and your interests completely separated. if this affects her performance at work then LGBF her and keep it at that.

 

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count your blessings. i was in a similar situation but the table got turned on me after i fell for her. now i hate my job.

you're absolutely doing the right thing. keep your business and your interests completely separated. if this affects her performance at work then LGBF her and keep it at that.

what's LGBF mean? do you mean LJBF (Let's just be friends)? That's what I'm doing. It's not going down too well. Today i'm just going to say nothing unless it's work related.

Truth is i'm just not attracted to her. looks wise she is fine. it's just that whiny persona i can't stand and it's coming out in full force now as if that is going to make me more attracted to her. she's virtually begging me. I could tell her that but I don't want to hurt her feelings. I'm getting valuable insight on what it's like to be a girl here fellas.

 

[RagingBalls]

Gurls can't accept rejection, it's a shock to their ego, and they want it back and throw whatever things at you like you got issues or scared, lol, those are gurl things and who knows it better than them.

what's LGBF mean?

Lady Gushed, Behind fvcked *evil grin*

 

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Gurls can't accept rejection, it's a shock to their ego, and they want it back and throw whatever things at you like you got issues or scared, lol, those are gurl things and who knows it better than them.

oh i don't think this is limited to girls. i don't know anyone who likes rejection. and the more we are rejected the more we try to persuade the other person to accept us who of course doesn't because the more we try the more we give our power away and the less attractive we become. it's a downward spiral.

for research purposes this situation is quite valuable. note to self. never try to persuade a girl to go out with you.

 

[sylvester the cat]

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[jurry]

Hey smiley face bro please just let this chick give u a bj so you can share the details with us

 

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so after all that, today the other girl comes up to me and tells me she is going to be in my area tomorrow evening and wants to hook up!!!

i had to quickly leave the room under teh guise of heating up my lunch so the first girl didn't see!!

what have i done!