I went to a party tonight and then entire time I was there I felt an air of coldness. Like I didn't belong or something. Granted I didn't know many people there, but it was still very akward. Just wanted to know how you guys deal with this.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.