"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cold shower benefits

Velor

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This is something really interesting I recently discovered, and it is the Cold shower!
I found that developing the habit of taking only cold showers has alot of benefits for our wellbeingness, both physically and mentally.

The base is that when you take a cold shower, you put your body on heavy stress. Since cold exposure causes your blood flow to be redirected to your vital organs, it forces your body to circulate your blood more efficiently this means you will pump up your immunitary system, have deeper breathing, more testosterone and the list of benefits just goes on

Just type "cold shower benefits" and it will blow your mind how many awesome things come as a result of this little daily challenge

Looking forward for your opinions
Peace
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Watawata

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It really puts you in a good mood for the rest of the day and builds inner strenght when done repeatdly. I recomend everyone to try it.
 

Mike32ct

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Watawata said:
It really puts you in a good mood for the rest of the day and builds inner strenght when done repeatdly. I recomend everyone to try it.
^This.

I use them to control my eczema, but they have many other benefits.

The only caveat is this....

After you get out of the shower, let the HOT water run for a few minutes. This will help keep your shower stall or tub clean. Cold showers are very short for obvious reasons, and they don't wash away the soap scum that builds up in your shower.

So shower in cold water, but run hot water after you get out. Otherwise, your shower stall will be disgusting dirty in a few weeks lol. (No female will want to go near it lol.). The hot water keeps the stall clean.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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plate's_empty

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yeah, and after your done with that cold shower, make sure you don't let a girl see your wee-wee for the first time.
 

AlexLefty

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plate's_empty said:
yeah, and after your done with that cold shower, make sure you don't let a girl see your wee-wee for the first time.
HA:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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If you're a believer in the No-Fap Challenge, I would rate the Cold Shower Challenge up there in equal importance in terms of taking control of your life and "increasing your testosterone" (placebo or not).
 

Hustlaz Ambition

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Love taking these all week, gets my T levels up for the weekend. Question is though how cold does the water need to be? Medium cold? Or ice cold?
 

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read Tim ferriss's THE FOUR HOUR BODY, it explains the sauna and cold bath bennies very well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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