"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cold Reading and Understanding People

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Cold Reading and Understanding People - FREE BOOK

Hey guys,

As some of you remember a few weeks ago I posted about psychological books and tricks and briefly mentioned cold reading - that is the art of making people think you know more about them than you actually do.

This is the technique, or group of techniques, that psychics, tarot readers, palm readers, etc. use to tell you about your future and are usually eerily correct.

It gives you an insight of how people think and how you can learn about people by quickly glancing at them and making general assumptions.

I don't have to draw you a picture for you to see how useful this kind of stuff can be not only at parties but in picking up girls. Even if you aren't going to put on a psychic act but need help picking out relevant conversation topics or to make her believe you understand her better than other guys do.

Well what is the point of this topic? Well, I have aquired a PDF copy of a book about Cold Reading. It is 54 pages long (you can set Adobe to print 2 pages per full size page and its 27, do double sided and you can get it down to 14 pages).

Yes, it is very short, but the information is very useful. If you have already studied some cold reading or psychology then you may already be familiar with at least good portions of this material. If you are completley new to the field of cold reading this book will be very informative.

If you want a copy of this book just send me a PM and I will e-mail you a copy.

If you have any questions or comments about Cold Reading, faking psychic abilities, or how this can apply to women post here and let's get the discussion going.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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As far as I'm aware, this ebook is targeted at knowing more about your audience - those people that fit into certain age groups are more likely to share certain emotions as a result of what they might be going through. It's information that is used to accelerate the process of establishing rapport. It might seem like 'magic' to the person you speak to because you 'understand' what they may be going through. Quite sneaky and underhand, but no doubt that it works and is not just targeted towards women, which is a plus.

Certainly might be more interesting reading for many of the younger DJs on this site wanting to learn about 'magic'.


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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Boy does that thing fill up fast! Alright its all clear now.

Yes, this book is as anakin said a general overview. It also helps in establishing rapport as well.

I am awaiting the arrival of Ian Rowland's book, which is the definitive guide to cold reading and includes specific tricks that help the process, so it will be a far more hands on book. I am lookin forward to it!
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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