"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cold Reading and Understanding People

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Cold Reading and Understanding People - FREE BOOK

Hey guys,

As some of you remember a few weeks ago I posted about psychological books and tricks and briefly mentioned cold reading - that is the art of making people think you know more about them than you actually do.

This is the technique, or group of techniques, that psychics, tarot readers, palm readers, etc. use to tell you about your future and are usually eerily correct.

It gives you an insight of how people think and how you can learn about people by quickly glancing at them and making general assumptions.

I don't have to draw you a picture for you to see how useful this kind of stuff can be not only at parties but in picking up girls. Even if you aren't going to put on a psychic act but need help picking out relevant conversation topics or to make her believe you understand her better than other guys do.

Well what is the point of this topic? Well, I have aquired a PDF copy of a book about Cold Reading. It is 54 pages long (you can set Adobe to print 2 pages per full size page and its 27, do double sided and you can get it down to 14 pages).

Yes, it is very short, but the information is very useful. If you have already studied some cold reading or psychology then you may already be familiar with at least good portions of this material. If you are completley new to the field of cold reading this book will be very informative.

If you want a copy of this book just send me a PM and I will e-mail you a copy.

If you have any questions or comments about Cold Reading, faking psychic abilities, or how this can apply to women post here and let's get the discussion going.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As far as I'm aware, this ebook is targeted at knowing more about your audience - those people that fit into certain age groups are more likely to share certain emotions as a result of what they might be going through. It's information that is used to accelerate the process of establishing rapport. It might seem like 'magic' to the person you speak to because you 'understand' what they may be going through. Quite sneaky and underhand, but no doubt that it works and is not just targeted towards women, which is a plus.

Certainly might be more interesting reading for many of the younger DJs on this site wanting to learn about 'magic'.


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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Boy does that thing fill up fast! Alright its all clear now.

Yes, this book is as anakin said a general overview. It also helps in establishing rapport as well.

I am awaiting the arrival of Ian Rowland's book, which is the definitive guide to cold reading and includes specific tricks that help the process, so it will be a far more hands on book. I am lookin forward to it!
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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