Cold hearted girl

[Jetleg]

I'm dating a girl for about 3 weeks now. she is cute and fun but when we meet but from time to time and while texting she is just acting like a cold hearted b1tch. we used to be friends for about a month before we started dating, she kept saying at the time that she just wants to be friends, but she "gave up" at the end.

For example: after not seeing each other for couple of days she won't even say hello when seeing me and look at me with like she doesn't give sh1t.

Or: replying very shortly to messages. very booring texts, or sometimes not replying at all.

But: when we meet she is very warm, she wants to cuddle and kiss all the time and the sex is great.

I get the feeling she is using me as an "second priority", basically just having the fun of a relationship without really being in one (untill she gonna find some1 she thinks is better than me). what do you think? I was thinking about ignoring her for a couple of days just to see how she reacts.

 

[marmel75]

If you want to melt her heart talk to her about how you get the vibe that she puts up this tough exterior because she's been hurt before and she doesn't want to let people in, but that you see through that and can tell she has a heart of gold and is a really sweet and caring person on the inside...

Then prepare for the best sex of your life because she will Fvck the hell out of you...and she will likely start falling for you as well...if that's what you want

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Sounding like a chick bro.

Only question that needs to be asked:

Are you boning her yet?

 

[KingBeef]

For example: after not seeing each other for couple of days she won't even say hello when seeing me and look at me with like she doesn't give sh1t.

Or: replying very shortly to messages. very booring texts, or sometimes not replying at all.

But: when we meet she is very warm, she wants to cuddle and kiss all the time and the sex is great.

The "not acknowledging/ignoring you" piece is a red flag (at least in my book). Right now she is strictly "plate" material until she gets better at that, no excuses.

It also could be a sign that your "too available" and gets bored easily. That's just bad behavior on her part but for now just have fun, don't be too available and ALWAYS KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN.

 

[Yewki]

For example: after not seeing each other for couple of days she won't even say hello when seeing me and look at me with like she doesn't give sh1t...

But: when we meet she is very warm, she wants to cuddle and kiss all the time and the sex is great.

If you were looking for a LTR, I think you need to keep looking. But sounds like you found a good f*ck buddy