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Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

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Cold cuts?

BwanaKuu

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How bad are cold cuts? I'm not talking the oscar meyer stuff, I'm talking stuff fresh from a deli. Is this bad to eat everyday? I see lots of mention of high sodium although this seems to mostly be for the really processed stuff that comes in a box (for preserving it).

I love chicken and turkey cold cuts from the deli. Just wondering if this stuff is bad for me (as far as weight loss/looking better are concerned).
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GoodButNotGreat

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its not horrible for you..but depending on how seriously you take your fitness lifestyle, you could reserve your love for cold cut meats for special occassions.

for the most part, id say that if you are lifting and want to be as lean as possible, you need to look constantly for lean protein sources such as lean chicken breast, tofu, skim milk, egg whites, fish etc.

obv a cold cut sandwich every once in a while wont hurt, but when health is the name of the game and your body relies on varied workouts/meals, you need to switch it up and not go for one everyday.

hope that helps bro!
 

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No they're fine. Fresher is better and made locally is better than industrial.

You should be more worried about all the white bread in the sandwiches than cold cuts.

GoodButNotGreat said:
for the most part, id say that if you are lifting and want to be as lean as possible, you need to look constantly for lean protein sources such as lean chicken breast, tofu, skim milk, egg whites, fish etc.
Skim milk is not "lean". It contains lactose which is a sugar. It's basically sugar water with some protein which also makes you bloated and gassy if you drink too much.

Tofu's bad for men. Mmmmkay?
 

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Cold cuts shouldn't be a part of your regular diet IMO. There's too much processed crap in them like nitrates, etc that have been linked to bad shiit. Furthermore, its not something we were meant to eat.

My rule for choosing foods is simple: if a caveman didn't have access to it, you're probably best off avoiding it. Humans spent hundreds of thousands of years in hunter/gatherer societies evolving metabolisms to consume and assimilate natural whole foods... therefore, it is in our best interest today to eat foods that are unrefined and closest to their natural state.

Instead of eating cold cuts have real meat. Instead of fruit juice eat the fruit, etc.
 

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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