"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cold Calling

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Hey guys,

Just wondering, im sure some of you have met women from out of nowhere and have gotten their numbers. U have had some rapport with them. Do you ever cold call these girls if they want to "hang out" on a friday night kinda thing.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I get a feel for the girl when I meet her, and believe it or not, Im 99% on the spot. If I want to hang out with the chick I call her before wednesday, just in case she follows the rules. I never ask them out though, just tell them Im going so and so and if they want to come with me.

She flakes? I never see or talk to her again.
 
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Yes.. I'm doing it today. I haven't talked to this chick in like 3 days.. and I'm going to call her up tonight and see if she wants to hang.. assuming my friend ever contacts me back.. he is my ride and being ****ing gay right now and will not answer my calls or ims.. so I have no idea to confirm I can actually go anywhere yet.. heh.
 
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Ok, first off, let's define cold calling.

Cold calling means you have not had any prior contact with the person whom you are calling.

If you have a number from a girl at a bar. That's not a cold call. Still, I'd say 2 out of 3 girls don't pick up. Call twice, separate days. If she doesn't pick up.(leave voicemail first time.) Delete the number, move on.
 
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it soiunds like if you are in a situation like this that this means you are going to most likely have sex if she decides to hang out with you? yes?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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