"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cold Calling

verysuave

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Hey guys,

Just wondering, im sure some of you have met women from out of nowhere and have gotten their numbers. U have had some rapport with them. Do you ever cold call these girls if they want to "hang out" on a friday night kinda thing.

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I get a feel for the girl when I meet her, and believe it or not, Im 99% on the spot. If I want to hang out with the chick I call her before wednesday, just in case she follows the rules. I never ask them out though, just tell them Im going so and so and if they want to come with me.

She flakes? I never see or talk to her again.
 

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Yes.. I'm doing it today. I haven't talked to this chick in like 3 days.. and I'm going to call her up tonight and see if she wants to hang.. assuming my friend ever contacts me back.. he is my ride and being ****ing gay right now and will not answer my calls or ims.. so I have no idea to confirm I can actually go anywhere yet.. heh.
 

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Ok, first off, let's define cold calling.

Cold calling means you have not had any prior contact with the person whom you are calling.

If you have a number from a girl at a bar. That's not a cold call. Still, I'd say 2 out of 3 girls don't pick up. Call twice, separate days. If she doesn't pick up.(leave voicemail first time.) Delete the number, move on.
 

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it soiunds like if you are in a situation like this that this means you are going to most likely have sex if she decides to hang out with you? yes?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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