Technical1
Senior Don Juan
Ha, the title was designed to mislead. I think approaching is for the elite, the few self-confident men who actually have the balls to create new options. Its the holy grail of this whole game, as grinder once noted, when you have a steady stream of options, all the games– sh1t tests, drama, jealousy– just fade away since you don't need to sweat the relationship.
Anyway here is a trick I've been implementing to cold approach: Approach as a stupid person. Basically go into stupid persona before you approach her, not by affecting anything but by limiting your own thoughts and not allowing yourself to analyze anything.
Analyzing the situation? Don't. Analyzing her? Don't. You're stupid, remember? Analyzing what you could say? Don't.
When your mind has a thought, counter it with: "but I'm stupid right now, so I go for it anyway!"
Say the first thing that comes to your mind, assuming its within the bounds of proper conversation and its topical. Basically don't allow the evaluation process to decide whether or not you approach, don't even allow this thought process to kick in. This thought process sabotages game. Every opportunity is a golden one, as far as your d1ck is concerned.
Do you want to fvck her? Well, then what an ideal setup!!
When you've opened just take the ball and run with it, but this trick is for overcoming the initial paralysis of "what if she...", "how is her mood", "is this going to work". Its a mental equivalent of the 3 second rule.
What you do when you initiate a convo is ancient stuff, we have way more brain cells and IQ points than we need to do this, and it all just gets in the way. You could literally be a near-retarded person and the mating ritual is similar or the same IMO.
When I was doing "trial runs" over the last weeks, basically sarging while wimping out simultaneously, I found that you can start to think of reasons why NOT to approach. Its absurd. There is ALWAYS a reason not to do it.
Hear the voice of cold analytical thinking when you approach? That voice will definitely not get you laid, never in a billion years IMO. Once you start to weigh the pros and cons of doing it, you're done. Turning off that voice is really crucial to making the 'leap of faith' and opening a total stranger.
Be stupid.
Anyway here is a trick I've been implementing to cold approach: Approach as a stupid person. Basically go into stupid persona before you approach her, not by affecting anything but by limiting your own thoughts and not allowing yourself to analyze anything.
Analyzing the situation? Don't. Analyzing her? Don't. You're stupid, remember? Analyzing what you could say? Don't.
When your mind has a thought, counter it with: "but I'm stupid right now, so I go for it anyway!"
Say the first thing that comes to your mind, assuming its within the bounds of proper conversation and its topical. Basically don't allow the evaluation process to decide whether or not you approach, don't even allow this thought process to kick in. This thought process sabotages game. Every opportunity is a golden one, as far as your d1ck is concerned.
Do you want to fvck her? Well, then what an ideal setup!!
When you've opened just take the ball and run with it, but this trick is for overcoming the initial paralysis of "what if she...", "how is her mood", "is this going to work". Its a mental equivalent of the 3 second rule.
What you do when you initiate a convo is ancient stuff, we have way more brain cells and IQ points than we need to do this, and it all just gets in the way. You could literally be a near-retarded person and the mating ritual is similar or the same IMO.
When I was doing "trial runs" over the last weeks, basically sarging while wimping out simultaneously, I found that you can start to think of reasons why NOT to approach. Its absurd. There is ALWAYS a reason not to do it.
Hear the voice of cold analytical thinking when you approach? That voice will definitely not get you laid, never in a billion years IMO. Once you start to weigh the pros and cons of doing it, you're done. Turning off that voice is really crucial to making the 'leap of faith' and opening a total stranger.
Be stupid.