"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ak89

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Damn this **** was worst then my appoarches. I would have been so pissed at the last appoarch u wrote about. People laughing at you. First of all you was way to quick with things. You didn't have no rapport from any of that. There wasn't no kino either. Your openers were ok. An after she stops looking at you you should have said something or looked away. Then lock eyes with her again.

But you got alot of heart for not getting pissed at that last one cause i would have been like "fuvk you guys, hop the **** off my d!ck."

Atleast you tryed though
 

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Sounds like someone is taking a jab at pvssy-eater.
 

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I would reccomend going with nicer approaches. You will probably get better results. Try starting with a compliment and see how that goes. Good luck.
 

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Re: Re: cold approaches, dawg

Originally posted by rockitck
Keep up the practice and the FR's you will learn quick through the process of parctice and in the field. The guys who give you negative feedback are the ones that don't have the guts to go out into the field and do what you want to do. Also learn to AMOG the guys in the field. My last suggestion is to find Tyler Durden's 25 point cheklist. If you can't find it go to arizonapua.com, it is there under posts from the masters. If you need help with that site PM me.

The guys who gave negative feedback were the ones who had half a brain and could see through this sarcasm, no offense
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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