"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cold approaches, dawg

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damn this **** was worst then my appoarches. I would have been so pissed at the last appoarch u wrote about. People laughing at you. First of all you was way to quick with things. You didn't have no rapport from any of that. There wasn't no kino either. Your openers were ok. An after she stops looking at you you should have said something or looked away. Then lock eyes with her again.

But you got alot of heart for not getting pissed at that last one cause i would have been like "fuvk you guys, hop the **** off my d!ck."

Atleast you tryed though
 
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Sounds like someone is taking a jab at pvssy-eater.
 
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I would reccomend going with nicer approaches. You will probably get better results. Try starting with a compliment and see how that goes. Good luck.
 
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Re: Re: cold approaches, dawg

Originally posted by rockitck
Keep up the practice and the FR's you will learn quick through the process of parctice and in the field. The guys who give you negative feedback are the ones that don't have the guts to go out into the field and do what you want to do. Also learn to AMOG the guys in the field. My last suggestion is to find Tyler Durden's 25 point cheklist. If you can't find it go to arizonapua.com, it is there under posts from the masters. If you need help with that site PM me.
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The guys who gave negative feedback were the ones who had half a brain and could see through this sarcasm, no offense
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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