"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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9-3enthusiast

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It's funny how everyone says this doesn't matter, but people always use it to justify their arguments.
Regardless of what many try to claim.... Looks, and the way you present yourself (dress and grooming) do matter.

I do well for a guy my age, regularly with women 15 or more years younger than myself - However I do look 10-12 years younger than I am, I'm in decent shape, and my cleanliness/grooming is always on-point.

I'm under no illusions that if I let myself go - put on weight, went unshaved, hair unkempt (or balding), fingernails gnarly, etc...
A single guy of my age, in that condition, would struggle badly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hollywood4life

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Regardless of what many try to claim.... Looks, and the way you present yourself (dress and grooming) do matter.

I do well for a guy my age, regularly with women 15 or more years younger than myself - However I do look 10-12 years younger than I am, I'm in decent shape, and my cleanliness/grooming is always on-point.

I'm under no illusions that if I let myself go - put on weight, went unshaved, hair unkempt (or balding), fingernails gnarly, etc...
A single guy of my age, in that condition, would struggle badly.
40?
 

Velasco

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I do well for a guy my age, regularly with women 15 or more years younger than myself - However I do look 10-12 years younger than I am,
57-12 = 45. A 45 year old looking guy doing well with age appropriate girls (40 year olds).

Characternote said a genetically inferior (face/height) man in 60s doing well with current Victoria secret models (20 year olds) thru cold approach.
 

Bigpapa

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57-12 = 45. A 45 year old looking guy doing well with age appropriate girls (40 year olds).

Characternote said a genetically inferior (face/height) man in 60s doing well with current Victoria secret models (20 year olds) thru cold approach.
even a 20 years old genetically inferior man will have really really low chances of being successful ( miracles can happen though ) , unless he goes for a sugar daddy arrangement ( money for sex , or using his really superior connections to help her out ) . This will just help improve his chances , that will still remain low , but still can be reached with enough will power

this type of arrangement do not really lead to anything of substance . Just to some low quality sex
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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